Monkey Business: The Tale of the Sundararajans

March 17, 2008

Six Degrees?

Filed under: Life in general, Travels — jpsunda @ 10:40 AM
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The people have spoken!

There is this theory that everybody on this planet is connected to one another… The theory holds that you can link any two people on to each other with only six other people. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Six_degrees_of_separation

I know we all have crazy connections. My craziest one involves my friend Mary Grace. When I finished seminary, I headed off to India in 2003 and began my life after school. In India, through a whole series of random occurrences, I ended up helping a church called the Bangalore International Christian Fellowship. Basically, it was a church for internationals and other Indians who have lived overseas, etc. It was at this church that I built a friendship with Mary Grace. We became good friends really fast. Mary Grace and her friend Robin would come home often and eat with my family. When we had bad days, we’d find coffee shops to veg out at and we definitely included each other in our own network of people. After countless motorcycle, autorickshaw and random van rides, we became quite the posse… JP and Mary Grace and Robin (You really should ask my brother James to read that with his “american” accent). A year later, my time in India was done and I headed back to the States while Mary Grace hung around off and on before she headed back stateside as well.

Mary Grace then began graduate studies in Vermont. She befriended a Michigan girl there, quite randomly, who just so happened to be working at Hope College with Katy! As random as that connection was, a little down the road, this friend Amy set her up with her brother Andrew. Long story short… Andrew and Mary Grace got married this year and they just had a reception here in Michigan. At the reception, I was the only one who really represented Mary Grace’s side and it was fun to hear people ask how we knew Andrew… we had to pause and say… well Katy works with Amy…but really we were there because JP and Mary Grace are friends… they met in India!

It was a great weekend. We got to know Andrew quite a bit. He comes from a family of artists. Quite an interesting story, but his family lived in Germany for about 20 years before opening up their pottery in Charlevoix. The church they attend is pastored by Chip Sauer… who interestingly enough worked with Katy when she was in seminary!:) Chip and Katy basically mentored each other. Andrew has a brother as well.. who lives out in Washington State. He lives in an area that is pretty cut off from the rest of civilization… canoes are a primary form of transport.. and get this… he is friends out there with a guy who’s dad works as my boss at Audio Scripture Ministries!

So yeah… talk about a cool way of getting people connected. This week has also been fun in another way. On thursday, I got to have dinner and coffee with my friend Arthur who I haven’t seen in 12 years! He graduated from high school with me in Chennai. I had since moved to the US. He is now an engineer in the US and just happened to be in Michigan. And in true Indian fashion, he called me the night before to see if he could come up to see me the next day. And in true Indian fashion… I said OF COURSE! Talk about a strange reunion. The last time I saw him, we were in high school uniforms, on a hot summer day in Madras (Chennai was still called that then). We probably still had idlis and vadas on our minds and last Thursday…we had pizza and coffee downtown. A lot has changed in our lives, but for that evening, we rewound that clock and talked in English and in Tamil about things that nobody else in Holland could really understand! Here is a picture of our evening. Arthur is on my left… and his friend Sahil is on my right.

JP with Arthur and Sahil

I hope you have some cool stories like that too. I am always excited to hear of reunions or crazy connection. Email me or leave a comment here if you wish to share your story! :)

March 3, 2008

A taste…

Filed under: Travels — jpsunda @ 10:37 AM
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I have pictures to put up but my connection is pretty slow so I will have to wait till I get back in a couple of days to load them here… until then… here is a random sampling…:)
The South Philippine Sea
By the South Philippine Sea
The Cagayan De Oro Airport
Merienda (Snack) time in the Philippines
The Guard in New Delhi
New Delhi
Mughal ruins in New Delhi
More to come…!

March 2, 2008

45 degrees warmer?

Filed under: Life in general, Travels — jpsunda @ 9:41 AM
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I have this cool feature on my iPod touch where I programmed cities that I frequent. Everytime I am online, it downloads the weather for all these cities and today, Bangalore was sunny with temperatures hitting the 90s. Holland was supposed to have a high of 44 degrees (F) today. It was weird to pack for this trip because everything I wore in Michigan I had to leave behind because I wasn’t just going to a warm place but rather to the heart of a new “season.” I really do miss this back in Michigan… wish it could be sunny and in the 80s all the time… oh well!

I had a good trip to India. Quite uneventful as far as the traveling bit was concerned. Spent my first day up in New Delhi before flying down later to Bangalore. It is good to be here and even though I am here for only a couple of days, it feels quite normal. My brother James took a train down from Hyderabad to spend time with me. It got me thinking. When I first left for the US almost 12 years ago, coming back to India was a BIG deal. I would spend months in preparation, had to concentrate hard on my studies in college because my brain would go wandering, I had to make sure I had all the paperwork in order and would re-check it every day… it was simply put, a BIG deal.

Today though, I had the strange realization that travel has become rather routine for me. Much like the train ride for James.   I got down at the airport in Bangalore late last night… my dad gave me the keys and I drove the gang home! To think that the last time I actually drove something, was the Hyundai in Michigan almost 2 weeks ago! Traveling this far… has gotten routine… and while I am glad it is routine, I do miss the warm fuzzies that used to come when I lay down on my bed in Heemstra Hall on a bad day. I would look forward to laying down and dreaming of India. I had dreams of days that were sunny and 45 degrees warmer. Where the food was spicy and family and friends cavorted around the TV for a cricket game. Now, to just be clear…I do still enjoy coming to India and would do it in a heart-beat… any time… its just a little more normal now… a little more routine… I think you know what I mean. I do not want to ever forget the warm fuzzies… keeps me thankful for what I have now.

I am going to be in Bangalore for a couple more days and then I head back to Katy and the US. I have 6 planes to take on my voyage home… and with each plane ride… I am going to be really praying that my luggage sticks with me!

I will try and post pictures tomorrow of my trip.

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